Praying with the Dying

“If we really think that home is elsewhere and that this life is a ‘wandering to find home,’ why should we not look forward to the arrival?”
C. S. Lewis

No one is ever truly prepared for the transformation that occurs when a loved one enters the final stage of life or passes away unexpectedly. Dying and death, while natural parts of life, are difficult to face. Change is challenging; loss is even more so. Yet, love endures forever. As Catholic Christians, we believe that we are pilgrims journeying through earthly life. Carrie Underwood captures this sentiment in her song “Temporary Home.”

This is our temporary home
It’s not where we belong
Windows in rooms that we’re passin’ through
This is just a stop, on the way to where we’re going
I’m not afraid because I know this is our
Temporary home

Carrie doesn’t mention, though, that we aren’t alone in this temporary home. We are companions on this journey, walking together so that no one has to walk alone, especially at the end of life. Family and friends typically gather around their loved ones in their final days, providing comfort that surpasses even the visits from a priest. The presence of loved ones is what truly brings solace.

When my grandma was on the final leg of her earthly journey, on hospice at home, her side door was like a revolving door with kids, grandkids, friends, and neighbors. A priest visited once, but it was her family she wanted to pray with. We prayed the rosary, offered freeform prayers, read from the Bible, and sang songs together. We were united in those moments.

Praying with the Sick & Dying

We understand that praying with a loved one in their final days or at their death is not easy for everyone. That’s why we’ve created this page, filled with prayers, songs, and Scripture, to offer comfort and peace to all experiencing this profound change from life to death to new life.

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Familiar Prayers

The Lord’s Prayer

Our Father, Who art in heaven, Hallowed be Thy Name. Thy Kingdom come, Thy Will be done, On earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day, our daily bread, And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Hail Mary

Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.

Glory Be

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son,
and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning, is now,
and ever shall be, world without end.

Eternal Rest

Eternal rest grant unto him/her, O Lord.
And let perpetual light shine upon him/her.
May he/she rest in peace. Amen.

The Rosary

Start by making the sign of the Cross:

In the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Then recite the Creed:

I believe in God, the Father almighty,
Creator of heaven and earth,
and in Jesus Christ, His only Son, our Lord.
He was conceived by the Holy Spirit,
and born of the Virgin Mary.
He suffered under Pontius Pilate,
was crucified, died and was buried.
He descended into hell.
On the third day He rose again.
He ascended into heaven,
and is seated at the right hand of God the Father Almighty.
He will come again to judge the living and the dead.

I believe in the Holy Spirit,
the Holy Catholic Church,
the communion of saints,
the forgiveness of sins,
the resurrection of the body,
and life everlasting.

Then say 1 “Our Father”, 3 “Hail Mary’s” for the virtues of Faith, Hope and Charity; and then 1 “Glory Be”:

The Rosary is divided into three parts, each having five mysteries. While meditating on the Mysteries, recite for each Mystery:

1 “Our Father”

10 “Hail Mary’s” and

1 “Glory Be”

After each Mystery the “Fatima Prayer” is said.

O my Jesus, forgive us our sins, save us from the fire of hell, lead all souls to heaven, especially those who are in most need of Thy mercy.

All together this makes up one decade.

Joyful Mysteries

Monday & Saturday

  1. The Annunciation of the Lord to Mary
    Mary is chosen to be the mother of Jesus.
  2. The Visitation of Mary to Elizabeth
    Elizabeth recognizes Mary as the mother of our Lord.
  3. The Nativity of our Lord Jesus Christ
    Jesus is born and laid in a manger.
  4. The Presentation of our Lord
    Jesus is presented in the Temple of Jerusalem.
  5. Finding Jesus in the Temple at age 12
    Jesus is found discussing God’s laws in the temple.

Glorious Mysteries

Wednesday & Sunday

  1. The Resurrection of Jesus Christ
    Jesus rises triumphant over death.
  2. The Ascension of Jesus to Heaven
    As Jesus ascends, He gives us a special task.
  3. The Descent of the Holy Ghost
    At Pentecost the Church is born.
  4. The Assumption of Mary into Heaven
    The Virgin Mary is gloriously assumed into heaven.
  5. Mary is Crowned as Queen of Heaven and Earth
    Mary is honored above all creatures.

Sorrowful Mysteries

Tuesday & Friday

  1. The Agony of Jesus in the Garden
    Jesus prays when confronted with the sins of the world.
  2. The Scourging at the Pillar
    Jesus is whipped before His execution.
  3. Jesus is Crowned with Thorns
    Jesus is mocked with a painful crown of thorns.
  4. Jesus Carried the Cross
    Jesus carries the weight of our sins to His crucifixion.
  5. The Crucifixion of our Lord
    Jesus Christ dies to save all mankind.

Luminous Mysteries

Thursday

  1. The Baptism in the Jordan
    God proclaims Jesus is His Son.
  2. The Wedding at Cana
    Jesus performs a surprising miracle at a wedding.
  3. The Proclamation of the Kingdom
    Jesus calls us to do something important.
  4. The Transfiguration
    Jesus is gloriously transformed.
  5. The Institution of the Eucharist
    Jesus shares His Body and Blood to show his love for us.

After the completion of the five mysteries (five decades), the “Hail Holy Queen” is said:

Hail, holy Queen, mother of mercy,
our life, our sweetness, and our hope.
To thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve.
To thee do we send up our sighs mourning and weeping in this valley of tears.
Turn then, most gracious advocate, thine eyes of mercy toward us,
and after this our exile show us the blessed fruit of thy womb, Jesus.

O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary.

Pray for us, O Holy Mother of God.
That we may be made worthy of the promises of Christ.
In the Name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.

Prayers for the Sick & Dying:

Gathering Together

We are gathered here in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ who is present among us. We pray that our presence here might be a source of solace and strength for all who gather. Lord, we thank you for the wonderful gifts of N. and the ways s/he has shown us faith, hope, and love. We come to offer love and comfort to N.as he/she looks forward to life everlasting. Lord, please hear our prayer and we ask you to be with N. and each of us as we leave this place. We ask this with confidence in your love and compassion. Amen.

A Prayer for the Sick Near Death

Blest are You, God of the Universe, We thank you and praise You for life. Bless (name) with patient endurance.

May mercy and compassion be with us during this time of transition.

Remember the good words and works of (name)

May the holy Angels be with (him/her)

both now and forever. Amen.

Prayer to St Joseph Patron Saint of the Dying

Faithful Joseph, with the fulfilment of the Lord’s promise,
you peacefully leave this world in Jesus and Mary’s hands.
Your faith transforms death into the sowing of life;
thus, God considers you to be a just man.
Your heart overflows in the presence of the Lord.
With your hands outstretched to God, your night is filled with prayers.
Surrounded by the living, you embark upon the great march to the promise Land.
Open our eyes that we may glimpse the road to Life that lies beyond death.
May nothing, not denial, anger, nor depression, separate us from the Love of God.
Strengthen our faith in God who always finds ways of preserving us in his friendship.
Be beside us to hold our hands when we take our first steps toward the Eternal Kingdom.

Amen

Prayer For All About To Die

Lord Jesus Christ, as you stood by the bed of good Saint Joseph and gently led him home to heaven, so shepherd every soul about to die to a paradise of perfect peace. Let the tears we shed upon their passing stand witness to our love for them and the depth of our thanksgiving for the gift of their lives and the grace of a good death. For you are Lord, forever and ever. Amen.

Scripture

Short Scriptural Texts

What will separate us from the love of Christ?  Romans 8:35

We shall always be with the Lord.   1 Thessalonians 4:17

The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom should I fear? Psalm 27:1

Jesus said, “Come, you who are blessed by my Father. Inherit the kingdom prepared for you.”   Matthew 25:34

God said, “I will never forsake you or abandon you.”   Hebrews 13:5

They that hope in the Lord will renew their strength, they will soar on eagles’ wings. Isaiah 40:31

Longer Scriptural Reading

The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing I lack. In green pastures he makes me lie down; to still waters he leads me; he restores my soul. He guides me along right paths for the sake of his name. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff comfort me…. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Indeed, goodness and mercy will pursue me all the days of my life; I will dwell in the house of the Lord.
Psalm 23

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New Testament Scriptural Readings

Jesus said, “Do not let your hearts be troubled. You have faith in God; have faith also in me. In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places. If there were not, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back again and take you to myself, so that where I am you also may be.”
John 14:1-3

Jesus said, “Whoever loves me will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our dwelling with him. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give it to you. Do not let your hearts be troubled or afraid.”
John 14:23, 27

Jesus said, “My sheep hear my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they will never perish. No one can take them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all, and no one can take them out of the Father’s hand. The Father and I are one.”
John 10:27-30

Jesus said, “Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart; and you will find rest for yourselves. For my yoke is easy, and my burden light.”
Matthew 11:28-30

So whoever is in Christ is a new creation: the old things have passed away; behold, new things have come.
2 Corinthians 5:17

Jesus said, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. Not as the world gives, do I give it to you. Do not let your hearts be troubled or afraid.”
John 14.27

Old Testament Scriptural Readings

“Do not fear: I am with you; do not be anxious: I am your God. I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my victorious right hand.” 
Isaiah 41:10

Be strong and steadfast! Do not fear nor be dismayed, for the Lord, your God, is with you wherever you go.
Joshua 1:9                               

Blessed are those who trust in the Lord;… They are like a tree planted beside the waters that stretches out its roots to the stream: It does not fear heat when it comes, its leaves stay green; In the year of drought it shows no distress, but still produces fruit.
Jeremiah 17; 7-8

For I know well the plans I have in mind for you…plans for your welfare, and not for woe, so as to give you a future of hope.
Jeremiah 29:11

God is our refuge and our strength, an ever-present help in distress. Thus we do not fear, though earth be shaken and mountains quake to the depths of the sea…. “Be still and know that I am God!”
Psalm 46: 1-3, 11

Music

Written by Kristyn Russell

Kristyn is a Midland native who attended St. Brigid Catholic School before heading to Jefferson and Dow High School. She holds a Master’s degree in Theology from Villanova University and a Bachelor’s degree in Theology with a minor in Communication from Aquinas College. When she’s not at work, she’s usually with her dog, Caspian, kayaking a new river, hiking through the woods, or sitting by a campfire reading a book.

Gun Violence is a Pro-Life Issue

Gun violence in the United States is absolutely a pro-life issue.

As Catholics, we believe that “Human life is sacred because from its beginning it involves the creative action of God and it remains forever in a special relationship with the Creator, who is its sole end. God alone is the Lord of life from its beginning until its end: no one can under any circumstance claim for himself the right directly to destroy an innocent human being” (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 2258). Gun violence is claiming the lives of innocent human beings and it is our duty to uphold the sacred dignity of each human life.

We also believe “The production and the sale of arms affect the common good of nations and of the international community. Hence public authorities have the right and duty to regulate them. The short-term pursuit of private or collective interests cannot legitimate undertakings that promote violence and conflict among nations and compromise the international juridical order” (CCC, 2316, emphasis added).

As faithful Catholics, we are called to stand up for the common good of our nation. We are called to stand up for the lives of the innocent. We are called to defend life at all stages, in all circumstances. We are called to use our voices to speak up for life.

We are called to be PRO-life without exception, without hesitation.

Please join us in standing up for life and protecting all lives against gun violence in our country.

A reflection from Fr. Rob Howe following the shooting in Uvalde, TX.

Get Involved

Everytown

Write your leaders. Everytown gives you the opportunity to send a message to Congress.

United States Conference of Catholic Bishops

Let the USCCB know that this is an important issue and they need to speak out on it. Contact them here.

Sandy Hook Promise Action Fund

Give to the Sandy Hook Promise Action Fund which advocates for better gun laws in our country. You can also sign petitions for common sense gun laws.

Click Here for Prayers for an End to Gun Violence

Prayer for Peace After Gun Violence

“Thus says Yahweh: a voice is heard in Ramah, mourning and bitter weeping. Rachel, weeping for her children, refuses to be comforted, for her children are no more.” –Jeremiah 31:15

God, comforter of the broken and disheartened, We come to you plagued with an agonized grief after yet one more outbreak of senseless gun violence.

We come to you, from the East to the West, from the North to the South, people of all ages, ethnicities, and walks of life.

We represent one voice, the voice of bitter weeping echoing throughout our cities and resounding in communities throughout the world.

As violence abounds, we sit in the darkness, sitting alongside the suffering on the mourner’s bench.

We are Rachel, mourning with wordless sobs, the lives of those sacrificed on the altar of violence.

We are Rachel, weeping for the wounded,for those whose minds and bodies are etched with painful memories of men’s unjustifiable rage.

We are Rachel, lamenting with the families who have lost loved ones whose cries of despair join with those from tragedies of gun violence.

We are Rachel, perplexed with troubled souls, and searching for answers, seeking to understand what would cause humans to inflict pain on their fellow sisters and brothers.

We are Rachel, exasperated, grasping—crying out, “How long, O God?” How long will this wave of violence consume your people?

Education for Justice

Written by Kristyn Russell

Kristyn is a Midland native who attended St. Brigid Catholic School before heading to Jefferson and Dow High School. She holds a Master’s degree in Theology from Villanova University and a Bachelor’s degree in Theology with a minor in Communication from Aquinas College. When she’s not at work, she’s usually with her dog, Caspian, kayaking a new river, hiking through the woods, or sitting by a campfire reading a book.

Embracing Epiphany

Epiphany brings an opportunity for reflection, renewal, and the celebration of the divine revelation. While the story of the Magi’s journey to Bethlehem is well-known, Epiphany holds a special place in the hearts of many for reasons beyond its historical narrative. One of the cherished traditions associated with this sacred occasion is the Home Blessing, a ritual that transcends time and culture, symbolizing the light and warmth of faith within the very heart of our homes.

The Essence of Epiphany

Epiphany, sometimes known as the Feast of the Three Kings, marks the culmination of the Christmas season. It commemorates the visit of the Magi, who traveled from the East following a star, and bearing gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh to honor the newborn Jesus. Beyond the historical context, Epiphany represents the manifestation of Christ to the world, a revelation that extends beyond religious boundaries, resonating with the universal theme of divine enlightenment.

three crowns

The Home Blessing Tradition

One Epiphany tradition is the blessing of homes. Each Home Blessing Kit includes chalk for the traditional door blessing and a guide for the home blessing ceremony. Blessed Sacrament provides kits for the parish community the weekend of Epiphany. They are available for anyone!

Significance of the Home Blessing

1. Sanctifying the Domestic Space:

The home is a sacred space where families gather, love is shared, and memories are created. The Epiphany Home Blessing sanctifies this space, inviting God into the very fabric of our daily lives.

2. Renewal and Reflection:

As we embark on a new year, the Epiphany Home Blessing becomes a moment of reflection. It allows us to renew our commitment to spiritual growth, set intentions for the coming year, and seek God’s guidance in our homes and hearts.

3. Community and Continuity:

Participating in the Home Blessing tradition connects us to a larger community of believers. It creates a sense of continuity, as families around the world join together in this ritual, linking past generations with the present and the future.

4. A Visual Reminder of Faith:

The chalk inscription on the door reminds us daily of our faith. It serves as a source of strength during challenging times and a beacon of hope that we carry with us as we enter and leave our homes each day.

image of epiphany home blessing kit

Embrace the Tradition

As we celebrate Epiphany this year, let us embrace the tradition of the Home Blessing with open hearts and minds. The Epiphany Home Blessing is an opportunity to deepen your spiritual connection, foster a sense of community, and invite the light of Christ into the very fabric of your home. May the blessings of Epiphany illuminate your path and bring joy, peace, and prosperity to your household.

In the spirit of Christ’s incarnation, may your homes be blessed, and your hearts filled with the love and grace of this sacred season.

Written by Kristyn Russell

Kristyn is a Midland native who attended St. Brigid Catholic School before heading to Jefferson and Dow High School. She holds a Master’s degree in Theology from Villanova University and a Bachelor’s degree in Theology with a minor in Communication from Aquinas College. When she’s not at work, she’s usually with her dog, Caspian, kayaking a new river, hiking through the woods, or sitting by a campfire reading a book.

4th Week of Advent: PONDER

PONDER – think about (something) carefully, especially before making a decision or reaching a conclusion

Today we heard a familiar story from the Bible: Gabriel visits Mary. Here we have a teenager who is engaged to be married, who is going about her daily routine when God springs onto the scene to ask her to be the mother of the Messiah. If you were in her shoes, what would you have said?

I’m not sure how I would’ve responded either. But, Mary’s faith is so great that she said, “Yes!” I don’t know if she was prepared but that didn’t stop her from taking on the greatest role in history: Mother of God.

Mary is awesome. She is the first disciple of Christ. She is our role model because just like her, God has a plan for each of us.

We’re going fast forward for a minute to the birth of Christ. In Luke’s gospel, the shepherds come to visit, think about how Mary and Joseph must feel- they traveled to Bethlehem, they just had a baby, shepherds surround them, and we don’t know Joseph’s reaction, but Luke tells us that Mary “kept all these things, reflecting on them in her heart.”

This brings me to this week’s theme: PONDER. The fourth week of Advent is a short 24 hours, but take a moment to ponder the miracle that we are about to experience.

Take a moment to ponder all you’ve been given.

Ponder what this Christmas will mean to you.

Take a moment to ponder what God is asking of you.

Written by Kristyn Russell

Kristyn is a Midland native who attended St. Brigid Catholic School before heading to Jefferson and Dow High School. She holds a Master’s degree in Theology from Villanova University and a Bachelor’s degree in Theology with a minor in Communication from Aquinas College. When she’s not at work, she’s usually with her dog, Caspian, kayaking a new river, hiking through the woods, or sitting by a campfire reading a book.

3rd Week of Advent: WISH

WISH: a desire or hope for something to happen

The third week of Advent means Gaudete Sunday! It’s joy week friends! Why is it called “Gaudete Sunday”? Well, the entrance antiphon  (opening song) for Gaudete Sunday, in both the Traditional Latin Mass and the Novus Ordo, is taken from Philippians 4:4,5: “Gaudete in Domino semper” (“Rejoice in the Lord always”). There’s your Latin lesson for the day!

Today’s theme is WISH. What do you wish for? What does your heart desire the most?

In this week’s first reading from Isaiah, we hear the prophet talk about what people desired from God:

He has sent me to bring glad tidings to the poor,
to heal the brokenhearted,
to proclaim liberty to the captives
and release to the prisoners,
to announce a year of favor from the LORD
and a day of vindication by our God

This is what the people of Israel expected the Messiah to do. This is what they wished for in their Messiah. The way John preached, people thought he might be the answer to their wish. The people John was preaching to were expecting Christ, the Messiah. John answers them:

“I am baptizing you with water,
but one mightier than I is coming.
I am not worthy to loosen the thongs of his sandals.
He will baptize you with the Holy Spirit and fire.”

John, too, was waiting with desire, hope, expectation. He was waiting for this wish of the Messiah to be fulfilled, and he knew that God is good and would send the Messiah, the Christ, just like he promised he would. God is still in tune with our desires, and our wishes.

Again, what is it that you wish for? What does your heart desire the most? Belonging? Patience? Love?

Will Christ’s birth on Christmas make that wish come true?

Written by Kristyn Russell

Kristyn is a Midland native who attended St. Brigid Catholic School before heading to Jefferson and Dow High School. She holds a Master’s degree in Theology from Villanova University and a Bachelor’s degree in Theology with a minor in Communication from Aquinas College. When she’s not at work, she’s usually with her dog, Caspian, kayaking a new river, hiking through the woods, or sitting by a campfire reading a book.

2nd Week of Advent: WATCH

Watch: look at or observe attentively over a period of time.

Have you ever been going somewhere and autopilot just kicked in and before you know it you’re at your destination and you’re like, wait… how did I get here? Yeah, me too.

Sometimes we are so caught up in our thoughts, our mental to-do list, listening to music, etc. that we aren’t paying attention to what we’re doing. Today’s theme is WATCH.

Happy child wait on holiday by window with Christmas lights in winter.

Watch where you’re going. It kind of can go with one of last week’s themes– focus. This Advent challenge yourself to watch and focus on what it is we’re waiting for this Christmas.

In the second reading from Mass this week, St. Peter writes,

But according to his promise
we await new heavens and a new earth
in which righteousness dwells.
Therefore, beloved, since you await these things,
be eager to be found without spot or blemish before him, at peace.

If there is fire and a mighty roar it’s a lot easier to pay attention, we wouldn’t have to discern anything because it would be obvious. But Christmas isn’t about the obvious, it’s about a baby coming into the world in a small town, in a stable, to a teenage mother and a carpenter. Nothing about that screams “Watch this!”

It’s our job to watch for the ways to prepare our hearts for Christmas, so challenge yourself this Advent to not just go through the motions, not to cruise through on autopilot; challenge yourself to watch and pay attention to the journey towards Christmas. How is God preparing you?

Written by Kristyn Russell

Kristyn Russell is a Midland native who attended St. Brigid Catholic School before heading to Jefferson and Dow High School. She holds a Master’s degree in Theology from Villanova University and a Bachelor’s degree in Theology with a minor in Communication from Aquinas College. When she’s not at work, she’s usually with her dog, Caspian, kayaking a new river, hiking through the woods, or sitting by a campfire reading a book.

1st Week of Advent: FOCUS

FOCUS: a center of activity, attraction, or attention

Raise your hand if this holiday season has you feeling like you need a pause button in your life?!

Okay, you don’t actually have to raise your hand, but if you’re feeling like me, then you might be feeling like you haven’t stopped going since Thanksgiving. I think that’s why this blog’s theme is so important: FOCUS.

In the Gospel on Sunday, Jesus says: “Be watchful! Be alert!” He could have added, “Stay focused!” Advent is a time to focus on what’s going on and what will happen on Christmas. Why is Christmas so important? Look around at what’s going on in the world and the reason we need Christmas joy is so apparent.

We’re looking for our Savior, Redeemer, and Friend, and when we focus and wait in anticipation, for the coming of our King, maybe we won’t feel like we need a pause button so much because we will be tuned into the waiting and preparation for Christmas.

Written by Kristyn Russell

Kristyn Russell is a Midland native who attended St. Brigid Catholic School before heading to Jefferson and Dow High School. She holds a Master’s degree in Theology from Villanova University, as well as a Bachelor’s degree in Theology with a minor in Communication from Aquinas College. When she’s not at work, she’s usually with her dog, Caspian, kayaking a new river, hiking through the woods, or sitting by a campfire reading a book.

NCYC Reflections

On Thursday, November 16, 2023 over 10, 000 high school students and young adults packed into Lucas Oil Stadium in Indianapolis for the opening night of the National Catholic Youth Conference (NCYC), among that 10,000+ were teens from Blessed Sacrament, the Youth 2 Youth Team, and Outreach Team: Dominic Griffin, Ashley Hofmeister, Angie Mechling, Faith O’Connor, Isabel Rudisel, Dan Schneider, Lorilei Seitz, Amelia Urlaub, Alex Yeakle. Plus, their adult leaders Kathy Russell & Dave Pasek.

Keep reading to learn more about their awesome experiences!

Isabel Rudisel, Youth 2 Youth & Outreach Member

I went to NCYC expecting to gain a sense of community but I gained so much more than that. While I did gain a sense of community really I gained a family. The people I met were so loving and Jesus-filled. I also gained a deeper understanding of my life and faith. I’m so grateful for going to NCYC because it’s not something that you do for a weekend, you go for a weekend but keep it for life.

Alex Yeakle, Youth 2 Youth & Outreach Member

Going to the National Catholic Youth Conference was an amazing experience and I’m so glad I went. Before, I had an idea of what it would be like because I’ve been to the Youth 2 Youth retreat before (it’s also my second year on the team for that). I expected it to be just a larger version of that but it was really a lot different and was more powerful and more amazing. 

Some of my favorite parts were singing and praying throughout the weekend and getting to know an awesome group of people. The best part of the weekend was on Saturday night, the last session was closing Mass. This Mass was the best I’ve ever experienced. It’s hard to describe having 13,000 people all singing and praying together but it was really amazing and beautiful. My favorite part of Mass…Bishop Espaillat’s homily. He was telling us, the youth, to live with joy—joy over fear and taking what we feel here at NCYC home. So, that’s what I’m going to do. That means not just going to Mass every weekend but living the faith. Most importantly, that means living without fear of showing my faith. 

Dan Schneider, Youth 2 Youth Team Member

If I could go back in time and tell myself one thing, right before going to NCYC 2023, I would say this: you’re in for a WILD ride, and here’s why:

The breakout-session speakers were alight with the sparks of the Holy Spirit, it seemed; every word and idea from the keynote speakers were full of clarity and precise wisdom – as if God’s heavenly intellect was speaking through their mortal tongues. God’s calm, caring compassion and his furious passion for our salvation were both present in the variety of keynote speakers that I attended. When we celebrated evening mass, the atmosphere was overwhelmingly beautiful. It was as if the presence of the Lord overshadowed the stadium in his ethereal splendor and sanctifying grace. The like-minded concentration of all 13,000 high-school youth on HIM created a very raw sense of religion, one that I can’t really describe even if I try. 

The musical experience of NCYC was a nearly indescribable symphony of praise and wholehearted prayer. The hymns, spirituals, and chants ignited in me a passionate fire of belief and surrender to God that is presently a swirling blaze of furious devotion to the Lord. 

The mixture of innumerable cultures, ethnicities, backgrounds, and countless otherworldly aspects of humanity, while I was at this conference was an incredible sight to see. For at NCYC, pigments were washed away by God’s blood of sanctifying grace, language barriers were torn down by God’s hand of salvation, and biases and stigmas were dispelled by the abundant love of God – everyone was one family of God’s children, all giving praise to the Father Almighty.

And that is why NCYC 2023 was such a wild rollercoaster of religious gorgeousness, and I would happily do it all over again, even if I have already experienced it all because God’s presence never gets old. 

Thank you for your time reading this, and God Bless. 

Faith O’Connor, Youth 2 Youth & Outreach Team Member

Participating in the National Catholic Youth Conference (NCYC) has been a transformative experience, deepening my sense of community and strengthening my faith. The spirit of unity among everyone created a belonging, making connections that made us forget about geographical boundaries. Engaging with a diverse community of young Catholics allowed me to witness the vibrantness of our shared faith. Not only did we grow together but individually too. Throughout this experience, I feel more connected with my faith than I have in a long time.   

The impactful speakers and thought-provoking breakout sessions at NCYC played an important role in my faith journey throughout this trip. The resonance of personal stories and the wisdom shared by speakers left a lasting impression, inspiring a newfound commitment to living out my faith in tangible ways. The mass was life-changing, receiving the Eucharist with 13 thousand people, you could feel the presence of the Holy Spirit. Together we sang and we danced and that joy is definitely coming home with me. 

Amelia Urlaub, Youth 2 Youth & Outreach Team Member

NCYC the National Catholic Youth Conference has helped me to get back into good habits within my faith. Not only has it done that but it made me realize that I find God in my community.  Knowing that there were 12,000 people there for the same thing felt so welcoming.  Day by day I met more and more people that were so similar to me and my situation. Going into the exhibit hall every day was some of the most fun of my whole trip, there were laughs and prayers, and the whole vibe of the place was very comforting. The keynote speakers really stood out to me and got me thinking on a different level.

Ashley Hofmeister, Youth 2 Youth & Outreach Team Member

Attending the National Catholic Youth Conference was a profound experience that deeply influenced my relationship with God. The vibrant atmosphere, filled with thousands of young believers, created a sense of unity and shared devotion that was truly inspiring. Through engaging speakers, uplifting worship sessions, and meaningful discussions, I felt a profound spiritual growth within me. The conference provided a space for introspection, allowing me to reflect on my faith, values, and purpose. This communal journey strengthened my connection with God, fostering a deeper understanding of His love and guiding me toward a more authentic and committed relationship with my faith.

 Witnessing the collective energy of fellow Catholic youth, all seeking a closer connection with God, left an indelible mark on my spiritual journey. The shared moments of prayer, celebration, and reflection created a sense of community that extended beyond the event itself. The NCYC became a catalyst for ongoing spiritual growth, prompting me to integrate the lessons learned into my daily life. The experience not only deepened my personal relationship with God but also ignited a passion for sharing the joy of faith with others. As I carry the memories and lessons from the conference forward, I am inspired to continue cultivating a dynamic and evolving connection with God in my ongoing journey of faith.

Angie Mechling, Youth 2 Youth & Outreach Team Member

The National Catholic Youth Conference was an amazing experience where we were able to see thousands of others that have the same beliefs as us. My group was a lot more oriented in meeting new people and we were able to meet new people in many different ways. Whether it was trading hats, putting a clothespin on somebody, or somebody shouting at us to join their picture. It was life-changing to see everyone together for one common goal, to praise God. 

Then again in Adoration, everyone sat there in complete silence. In Lucas Oil Stadium, with thousands of people kneeling looking to Jesus in silence. The fact that everyone at that moment was doing the same thing really struck me. Also, while waiting to go to Confession, we met a girl and she was terrified to go because she was the only one in her group to go, but we were with her, and afterward, she told us how we made her feel so much better about going to Confession. It felt amazing to be able to make somebody more confident to be able to share their stories with God to be forgiven.

Dominic Griffin, Outreach Team Member

I was sick for about half of NCYC, but I still experienced God there, undoubtedly. There were 12,000 Catholic youth, and when we were all in one place, it was amazing! When we were all together at the closing mass, there was a really good bishop,(Bishop Joseph Espaillat, II) who gave the homily. He said that the people can’t expect priests to always do their job if we aren’t doing ours. I thought about how much sense that made; it was very wise. This event was about sharing your faith with other people to make it stronger. We learned about developing a strong faith through people sharing their experiences and how they improved in their faith. I plan on praying more to improve my faith life.

Lorelei Seitz, Youth Ministry Participant

I came into this with a heavy heart and a closed mind. I knew I was distracted from God, and I wanted to feel His presence again. I could feel God with me throughout this NCYC experience and He knew how hard I was trying. I learned that even though it can be scary, I needed to fully put my trust in God and be thankful for the plan, or the path that He has put me on.  It was so nice to feel that love and faith in the stadium, knowing I’m not alone, and there are plenty of people my age who love God and have gone through the same things I did.

One thing that has been stuck in my mind is the phrase, “You are not a problem to be solved, but a mystery to be contemplated.” That was so impactful and relieving to hear.  All of the speakers were so impactful and their stories and analogies were beautiful, but the one person who really hit my heart was ValLimar Jansen. She was so engaging and persuasive and she truly loved God and that love shook me to the core.  God’s presence was so strong when she was on that stage, and everyone felt that.

To conclude, I’m so grateful I got to experience NCYC. I love all the people I met, the hats I traded, clothes pins I clipped, but especially, I’m very grateful that my connection with

God is strong again, that my mind is open, and that my heart is filled with love.

Dave Pasek (Chaperone)

One of the small session talks was very impactful for me. Calling us to praise God. And we all can see that and see God in His amazing creation.  All of creation is made to praise God, and we are too. Like the symphony that tunes up all on one note, we need to get in tune and praise God together with creation! Very inspirational.

Also, seeing a stadium full of people, all kneeling in silence and praising God in song during Adoration, and with thousands of young people all together singing at the top of their lungs and praise of our God at mass, filled with joy and energy at the closing song, shouting amens in the stadium with endless echoes.  With funny, challenging, and powerful insights from the funny, deep, and real bishop, (Bishop Joseph Espaillat, II,) was really fulfilling.

I think all ages would benefit from going to an NCYC thing to re-energize and inspire one’s faith.

We would like to say thank you for all of your prayers and support on this pilgrimage to Indianapolis. Without a supportive faith community, this experience would not have been possible. Your support for the young people of the parish and the programs we participate in is greatly appreciated!

~Dominic, Ashley, Angie, Faith, Isabel, Dan, Lorelei, Amelia, Alex, Kathy, and Dave

Creating Your Family Advent Wreath

Advent is a journey towards Bethlehem. May we let ourselves be drawn by the light of God made man.

—Pope Francis

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History of the Advent Wreath

The Advent wreath has its origins in the Christian traditions of the Western Church and has evolved over time. Its history can be traced back to various customs and practices associated with the season of Advent, which is the period of preparation and anticipation for the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ at Christmas.

  1. Early Christian Practices: The use of wreaths, in general, dates back to ancient times, symbolizing victory and eternity. Early Christians in Germany are believed to have adopted the custom of using wreaths during the Advent season, incorporating evergreen elements to symbolize the enduring nature of God’s love.
  2. 16th Century – Johann Hinrich Wichern: The modern Advent wreath is credited to Johann Hinrich Wichern, a Protestant pastor in Germany in the 19th century. In 1839, Wichern created a wooden ring with 20 small red and 4 large white candles. The small candles were lit during the weekdays, and the large candles were lit on Sundays as a way to mark the progress of Advent.
  3. 20th Century – Liturgical Adaptation: The concept of the Advent wreath as we know it today became more standardized in the 20th century. It was adopted into the liturgical practices of both Protestant and Catholic churches. The wreath typically consists of a circular evergreen wreath with four candles, often three purple or blue candles and one pink or rose candle.
  4. Symbolism of the Advent Wreath:
    • Circular Shape: The wreath’s circular shape represents eternity and the unending nature of God’s love.
    • Evergreen Branches: Evergreen branches symbolize the hope of eternal life in Christ.
    • Candles: The candles represent the four weeks of Advent. The three purple or blue candles represent hope, peace, and love, while the pink or rose candle represents joy. The central white candle, often lit on Christmas Day or Christmas Eve, represents the birth of Christ, the Light of the world.
  5. Liturgical Usage: The Advent wreath is lit in churches and homes on the four Sundays leading up to Christmas. Each candle is associated with a specific theme or virtue corresponding to that week of Advent. The first week of Advent focuses on hope, the second week on peace, the third on joy (represented by the pink candle), and the fourth on love.

Over time, the Advent wreath has become a cherished tradition in many Christian households, providing a tangible and symbolic way for individuals and families to spiritually prepare for the Christmas celebration.

Creating an Advent Wreath with Fresh Pine Branches – Step-by-Step Guide

Materials Needed:

  1. Wire wreath form (available at craft stores or online)
  2. Fresh pine branches
  3. Pipe cleaner or floral wire
  4. Four candles (3 purple, 1 pink)
  5. Candle holders or small glass containers if your form doesn’t have them
  6. Purple and pink ribbon
  7. Pruning shears
  8. Optional: Decorative ornaments, berries, or pinecones
advent wreath candles

Instructions:

Step 1: Gather Your Materials
Ensure you have all the necessary materials before starting the project. Lay out the wire wreath form, fresh pine branches, pipe cleaner/floral wire, candles, candle holders, ribbon, and any optional decorations you’d like to add.

Step 2: Prep the Wire Wreath Form
Position the wire wreath form on a flat surface. This will serve as the base for your Advent wreath.

advent wreath form

Step 3: Trim and Prepare Pine Branches
Using pruning shears, trim the fresh pine branches into manageable lengths, around 6-8 inches. Remove any excess needles from the bottom part of the branches to make it easier to attach them to the wreath form.

Step 4: Attach Pine Branches to the Wreath Form
Take a trimmed pine branch and secure it to the wreath form using pipe cleaner/floral wire. Repeat this process, slightly overlapping each branch, until the entire wreath form is covered with pine branches. This creates the lush, green base for your Advent wreath.

Step 5: Add Decorative Elements (Optional) If you choose to add ornaments, berries, or pinecones, secure them to the wreath using pipe cleaner/floral wire. Distribute them evenly around the wreath for a balanced and festive look.

Step 6: Tie Ribbon Wrap a purple ribbon around each purple candle, securing it in a bow or knot. Do the same with the pink ribbon around the pink candle.

Step 7: Attach Candles Place the four candles evenly around the wreath. Use candle holders or small glass containers to secure them in place if your wreath form does not have them. Traditionally, three candles are purple, representing hope, peace, and love, while one candle is pink, representing joy.

Step 8: Display and Light Candles Place your completed Advent wreath in a central location in your home. Begin lighting the candles on each Sunday of Advent, starting with one purple candle in the first week, followed by two purple candles in the second week, the pink candle in the third week, and finally, all candles in the fourth week.

Enjoy the beauty and meaning of your handmade Advent wreath throughout the Christmas season!

The Prayer House

Reconnect with Nature

The Prayer House was built in 1981 near the back of our land.  There have been hundreds of visitors, mostly adults, (lots:  including several middle-school and younger students from Blessed Sacrament).   People can come in the Spring, Summer, and Fall.  There is NO cost. Just email Jeanne Lound Schaller and tell her when you want to come. You can just come for a look to see it and to feel if you want to spend time here. I had several people come for spiritual direction, and that worked well. Also, coming to pray and/or to enjoy the beauty of Mother Nature has been a gift for many. 

NOTES FROM SOME VISITORS: 

“I came only to visit for a few minutes.  I definitely will return.  There is a great peace which envelopes me here.”

“A very peaceful and quiet place where one can be alone with the Lord.  I thank you for your trust in people”

“Nature is my temple and my solitude.  The sound of the poplar leaves –  a deep sense of peace.”

“So beautiful today.  Marvelous to sit and suck up with Mother Nature.”

“I was here with my mom.  Walking and talking.  Breathing and Living.” 

MESSAGES OF STUDENTS: 

When they walked to the prayer house,  I asked them to go quietly, and they did.

“Here is the place of peace and fun.  The trees dance to music alley in the sun.  The House of Prayer and whisper of trees is peace, harmony and silence. You just want to pray on your knees.”

“I never expected such a small house to hold a big heart and so much diversity.  It’s wonderful.”

“10 words to describe this place.  VIBRANT, FRESH, SPIRITUAL, WINDY, NATURAL, SILENT, HAPPY, FRIENDLY, POWERFUL, BEAUTIFUL.”   

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