No social media? What do I do?!
Embrace the opportunity! This is an opportunity to disconnect from your phone or computer and reconnect with the world. Enjoy nature. Focus on your prayer life. Enter into the silence. Practice mindfulness. Learn something new. There are many ways to fill your time where you might have been scrolling. See what Lent opportunities we have at Blessed Sacrament, and here are some other suggestions.
1. Focus on building positive habits
If you had to estimate – how much time do you spend scrolling on social media? 30 minutes a day? 1-2 hours a day? More? Did you know that it takes about 30 days to build a habit? If you give up social media for Lent, you can focus on cultivating positive habits like reading (or listening to) books for fun, going for walks, or practicing mindfulness. Lent is 40 days, so you could have a new habit or two by the end!
2. Connect with people in person
Do you know the names of your neighbors? Or what about the people who sit behind or in front of you at Mass? When was the last time you called a long-distance family member or friend? Take this time to reconnect with friends and family in person. Take time for face-to-face meetings or phone calls to strengthen those relationships. Introduce yourself to your neighbors at home or at Mass and ask them how they are doing.
3. Volunteer and give back
Find ways to give your time to worthy causes. Have you always wanted to volunteer at the Open Door? Now’s the time (Blessed Sacrament has a group that works at the Open Door regularly)! Find a cause you’re passionate about and give your time this Lent.
4. Journaling
Start a Lenten journal to document your 40 days without social media. Or record your thoughts, experiences, and reflections during this period. If you’re interested in going deeper, check out the guided autobiography program, Everybody has a Story, with Ansley Dauenhauer beginning on February 21!
5. Read spiritual or inspirational books
Choose books that align with your spiritual or personal development goals. Do you want to learn more about spirituality, the saints, living your faith, or maybe you’re struggling with your faith, there are books out there that can help you with that doubt and insecurity. Check below for recommendations from Fr. Rob and staff.
6. Learn a new skill
With your newfound free time, you could learn a new skill. It could be anything from learning an instrument, or a new language, or practicing new recipes. The sky is the limit on this one!
7. Physical activity
You could focus on your physical health through regular exercise (not just working your thumb by scrolling). Take a hike at City Forest, go for a bike ride down the rail trail, walk around your neighborhood or to the end of the driveway if you’re starting small, or any other form of physical activity that you enjoy.
8. Digital detox
The goal is not to replace one screen with another, so you might consider a broader digital detox. Limit your overall screen time and take breaks from other digital devices as well.
9. Practice gratitude
Develop a daily gratitude practice. This could be the foundation of your journaling practice. Reflect on the positive things in your life and express gratitude for them either in a journal or through an action that serves others. Here are some prompts to consider:
Morning Gratitude:
- What are three things you’re grateful for as you start your day?
Daily Highlight:
- Recall the best part of your day and express gratitude for that moment.
Small Pleasures:
- Reflect on small, everyday pleasures that often go unnoticed. What are you thankful for today?
Challenges Turned Blessings:
- Consider a recent challenge or obstacle. How did it turn into a blessing or an opportunity for growth?
Acts of Kindness:
- Write about someone’s kindness that you experienced or witnessed. Express gratitude for that person’s actions.
10. Spend time in nature
Take advantage of the outdoors. Spend time in nature, whether it’s hiking, gardening, or simply enjoying a quiet moment in a park.
Ready, Set, Lent
Lent isn’t just about giving something up, but cultivating ways to grow closer to God, deepen your faith, and become a better version of yourself, so on Easter Sunday we truly feel newly alive, like we too, have risen from the grave with Christ!
If you’re still not sold on ghosting social media for Lent, here’s a post-Lent reflection from someone who did it and survived!
Book Recommendations
Fr. Rob’s Recommendations
Kristyn’s Recommendations
Christy’s Recommendation
Corinne’s Recommendations
For the littles:
The Tale of Three Trees by Angela Elwell Hunt
You Are Special by Max Lucado (And any of the sequel books about the Wemmicks)
Angel in Our Forest by Janet Mullen, SNDdeN (about modern martyr Sr. Dorothy Stang)
Just Help by Sonia Sotomayor
Chicken Sunday by Patricia Polacco
Mrs. Katz and Tush by Patricia Polacco
On Noah’s Ark by Jan Brett
Rechenka’s Eggs by Patricia Polacco
For grown-ups:
Out From Egypt series by Connilyn Cossette
Angela’s Ashes by Frank McCourt
A Nun in the Closet by Dorothy Gillman (light mystery fiction about a couple of mystery-solving nuns)
The Book of Joy by His Holiness the Dalai Lama & Archbishop Desmond Tutu
Bread of Angels by Tessa Afshar
Seven Last Words by James Martin, SJ